HOW CAN I GET MY BOYFRIEND BACK WITH DR SHABAH

HOW CAN I GET MY BOYFRIEND BACK

To love and to be loved is such a beautiful thing, you feel like you have conquered the world, especially when everything is going the way you want it. But the saddest moment is when your partner tells you that you have come to the end of the road of your relationship. This is very painful, because you feel betrayed, used and hurt. Now the question, are you going to spend most of your time in bedroom crying and mourning because they broke up with you? I Dr shabah my answer is a big NO, you can still get them back, regardless of how long they have gone and no matter what happened or caused the breakup. I have come up with some proven tips today, and if you implement them immediately, your chances of getting back together will be high.

Make apology for what you did.

Before i go any further about this, take a deep breath, think and ask yourself two questions, what is it that you did or went wrong in your relationship? Secondly what is it that they did not like or complain, before you broke up? Then be honest enough to give yourself the right answers, because this will help you where to start from in your task of getting back together. Secondly you must admit to your faults, you know very well that you haven't been treating them right and whether you broke up with them, or they broke up with you, you have to face the reality and make a sincere apology. Now my question to you is, are you willing and ready to do this?

Fine, you are more than ready and willing that's good, but why do you have to do this and how i it going to help you to getting them back?

First and foremost, if you make a sincere apology it will ease their minds and thoughts of getting back with you. Secondly a sincere apology will send a clear message to them, that you still care about them, because you have swallowed your pride, if they truly loved you, definitely they will think about giving the relationship another try.

Making apology to someone whom you have hurt, especially inn the relationship, at times it's not easy, so how are you going to do this? Also here you have to be extra careful, because you have to show them, that you are truly sorry for what you did, and willing to change for better so that your relationship can work.

Ask them to have lunch or dinner together, with a text, email or even a call, once they accept to go out with you, make sure you take them to their favorite restaurant, buy them gifts such as their designer's perfumes, go for holiday together of your favorite destination, make eye contact and be polite when talking to them, but don't beg and plead.The most important thing here is, show them how sorry you are and promise to change your behaviors or attitude.

Show respect.

Love is all we need, but do you think your love will last without respect for each other? The answer is NO, is strongly emphasize, all relationship should be based on respect and honesty. You have to respect in order to get it, everyone deserves it, and this is especially important when you decide to love or date someone. I understand you were hurt and still feel the pain of your relationship, and at some point you have the feeling that it was unfair for them to break up with you. But are you still showing respect to them? You have to honor and respect their boundaries, don't stalk on them, don't even snoop in their cell phones or emails, don't even try to be an investigator to find out whom they are friends with or dating. Show them respect not only with your words, like i mentioned before all relationships should be based on respect and honesty, why is it necessary to show respect?

The most important part of any healthy relationship between couples is being able to talk and listen to one another in a respectable manner. Any relationship where there's respect for each other, it helps you to learn listening skills, and if you are good listener in your relationship, you can solve conflicts easily since there is understanding between the two of you.

Respecting one another in relationship, gives you freedom to talk honestly and freely and make decisions together, hence this makes the relationship strong. How can you show respect to your partner?

Always learn to keep calm and say to them whatever bothering you, talking calmly will help you understand the real reasons why you broke up and it's much easier to figure out how you are going to fix your conflicts. Listen to your partner, don't finish up a sentence before them, if you want to show them true respect then you should make an effort to truly listen to them when they are talking to you as well.

If you have decided that, you truly want them back and ready to do what it takes, take Dr shabah's advice am sure you won't go wrong. But you have to be focused with your actions in this regard, it's never too late to win them back and who knows, they might be your life partner till death separate you.

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HOW TO MAKE HER LOVE YOU MORE EVERYDAY

Most people think that love is just for money yet ladies love and like different things from men. Sometimes you may find some of them in need of feelings, care and handling and yet others love appearance. According to my research i found out that ladies got many other ways of loving you more and more everyday and these are holding her hand while walking in public, buy her simple gifts, hang out together, know what she loves, giver her options where to go out and lastly look after her hairs.

Hold her hand while walking in public.

This will make her feel that you are not ashamed to be with her and you are ready to show her off to the world and she is the only one in your life.

Buy her simple gifts.

Here you can send her special cards, chocolates or her designer's perfumes. Kiss her forehead and hug her from behind.

Go out together.

Take her to the movies, window shopping in malls, go for lunch, dinner, open for her the car door, pull the chair for her in the restaurant of help her to climb the stairs. This way you will capture her heart forever and hence love you more each day pass by.

Know what she loves.

Buy her favorite stuff, for example milk shake designer's shoe and so on when she has not asked about it. Make it as a surprise buy whatever she wants most or wish to have and yet she has never got access on that thing.

Giver her options where to go out.

Sometimes ladies feel that they want to be bosses, so make sure they are bosses at the particular time and they are in charge of choosing where they would want to go out with you. When you go out, you can buy anything you feel like having and choose for her something also, but when you are about to have it, let her select what she would like to have from the two.

Change her hair style (look after her hairs)

Ladies enjoy a man who takes care of their hairs, so make sure you sponsor or look after that very often, escort them to their hair stylist by surprise at least once in a while, then you will see the way she loves you more everyday.

To be loved more everyday by your lady depends on how you play your game. It's not only sex that will make a girl love you but, you can also do things like holding her in public, buy her simple gifts, take her out and know what she loves. Besides that let her choose her favorite place to visit when you are going out. In addition to that her hair is the number one priority on her body, look after it everyday now and then, as ladies they love and respect fashion.

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HOW TO MAKE A GUY COMMIT TO YOU

HOW TO MAKE A GUY COMMIT TO YOU

Sometimes you cannot force someone to do what he doesn't want to do, but at the same time you can influence someone to do what he didn't wanted to do and do it, and in the end you get what you want from him. Committing to someone it's not a decision, not a personality quality, it involves a specific set of choices and actions that any person can do. I Dr shabah, the most commonly asked question from my clients is, what can they do to make their men or boyfriends to be committed? As someone who is specialized in love related matters, this is the advice i give to all my clients to get their boyfriends or men committed to them. I advice them not to give their boyfriends all the benefits of the relationship before showing to them that they can commit, secondly i always advice them to make friendship to the family and friends of their boyfriends.

Don't give him all the benefits of a relationship before he is not committed to you.

By all means make sure that you make him work for the benefits of the relationship, so that he can earn a place in your life, especially on things a woman is supposed to do for her partner. Most women have a very big mistake they make especially when they have just started dating with their boyfriends. The first mistake women make is to have sex with their boyfriends soon, secondly they let their boyfriends to call them and pick them anytime they want, sleeping over most of the time, cooking for them, doing their laundry and sometimes looking after them when they are ill. In this case am not telling you to be selfish or mean towards your boyfriend, you can have sex with him but not just within a week when you have just seen or started dating, this way he will see you as a slut and with no value. Don't be available anytime he needs you, show him that you have your personal life and other commitments apart from your relationship, spend a night with him at least once a month but don't make it a routine, at times go cook and do his laundry but don't make it a everyday thing, and when he wants you let's say to accompany him to the doctor when he is ill, go and tell him that you are worried about him, but avoid staying with him instead just visit to check how he is doing.

Avoid doing these mistakes, and the reason behind this, if you do everything for him and he hasn't showed you that he is committed, he will not, believe me you, because there is no way he will commit when he gets all the benefits of a committed partner and yet he is single. Secondly let him miss you in bed, miss you when he is ill, and on top of that let him miss you in his life but don't overdo it. I promise, if you are determined to do this, your boyfriend he will give you all the respect, value you and get committed to you.

Make his family members and friends your friends too.

Make his family members and friends your friends too, how? You need some time to understand what makes them happy and upset. Whenever you are around them make sure you watch your actions and words, to avoid annoying them, or not being disgusting, if you know that when you get drunk, you talk anyhow and attack anybody, then don't drink on his sister's graduation party or birthday, also you must watch the way you dress, don't expose your body to the extent that even people can see the color of your pant inside, don't expose your boobs, because no man wants his partner to expose her body in the public, make sure by all means you are always decent the way you talk and dress.

Secondly if you make friendship with the family and friends of your boyfriend, this will influence him to get committed to you, how? If your boyfriend gets to hear good compliments or qualities from his family and friends about you, how are beautiful, well behaved, respectful, clean, funny, clever, and so on, as must he will commit by all means.

So ladies, i want you to understand from today on wards, anyone can commit, it's a decision not a personality trait, anyone is capable of doing it.

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HOW TO GET BACK TOGETHER AFTER A DIVORCE BY DR SHABAH

  HOW TO GET BACK TOGETHER AFTER A DIVORCE

Divorce is very painful on both husband and wife, some couples do divorce and after a while they come to realize that the decision they made was the biggest mistake of their lives.In my article today am going to give you some tips how you can get back together after a divorce no matter how long you have been divorced.

List all the misunderstandings and conflicts.

Take a deep breath and recall all that went wrong in your marriage and what was your contribution in the break up. Once you get to know where exactly the problems started from, don't disagree with yourself that why my marriage ended. You divorced because there were some valid reasons and if you happen to discuss the issues don't argue them. Doing this will benefit you as a couple to a fresh start and there is nothing better than as admitting to your faults and apologize for the mess you caused.

Stop nagging and communication for some time.

Stop convincing him/her to come back and this business of calling now and then will only further them away, give them time and set your priorities, the space and the silence between you two will work in your favor. During this time make sure you look after yourself for example hit the gym to put your body fit and in shape, go for new clothes if you can, in other wards make yourself attractive and nice, the next time you will bump into each other or make appointment to meet, definitely he/ she will start missing you and probably see how valuable or important you mean to them. When you give him/her the space and keep the silence it will also give them some thoughts on what went wrong in your relationship and as a must they will ask you to work things out and the end result will be getting back together.

Keep the friendship.

In this case it's difficult and at the same time it's possible, all you have to do just remain calm and be nice to him/her,but on one condition you have to forgive and forget, check on them at least once in two weeks or a month with the text, email or twitter sometimes call them just to say hello and i hope life is treating well, this will make them think about you all the time and he will ask you to meet up and probably work things out. Another way of keeping the friendship, i suggest also you go back and start doing those special things you used to do for them before you got married. In case of celebrations like anniversaries, birth days or graduations, buy them that special gift wrap it nicely, this will make them realize that you still care and wishing them the best.

Talk to families and close friends to resolve the issues.

Sometimes when the couple divorces no one wants to take blame that it was their fault or the contributing factor for the end of the marriage. At times all we need is people close to us to intervene and resolve the issues. Make sure you involve close friends who are married and settled well, because they will look at the issues without siding and hence to know who was right and who was wrong.

If you put this into consideration and act on them i guarantee you the chance s of getting back together will be high. Now that you are back together bear in mind at some point there will be misunderstandings or disagreeing on something, but this time around learn to fight in a way whereby you respect each other.

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HOW TO MAKE HER LOVE YOU EVERYDAY BY DR SHABAH

 HOW TO MAKE HER LOVE YOU EVERYDAY

Most people think that love is just for money yet ladies love and like different things from a man. Sometimes you may find some of them in need of feelings, care, and handling and yet others love appearance. According to my research I found out that ladies got many other ways of loving you more and more everyday and these are holding her hand while walking in public, buy her simple gifts, hang out together, know what she loves, give her option where to go out and lastly look after her hairs.

Hold her hand while walking in public.

This will make her feel that you are not ashamed to be with her and you are ready to show her off to the world and she is the only one in your life.

Buy her simple gifts.

Here you can send her special cards, chocolates or her designer's perfumes. Kiss her forehead and hug her from behind.                      

Go out together.

Take her to the movies, window shopping in malls, go for lunch, dinner, open for her the car door, carry handbag in public, pull the chair for her in the restaurant or help her to climb the stairs. This way you will capture her heart forever and hence love you more each day, which pass by.

Know what she loves.

Buy her favorite stuff, for example milk shake, designer's shoe and so on when she has not asked about it. Make it as a surprise buy whatever she wants most or wish to have and yet she has never got access on that thing.

Giver her options where to go out.

Sometime  ladies feel that they want to be bosses, so make sure they are bosses at the particular time and they are in charge of choosing where they would want to go out with you. When you go out, you can buy anything you feel like having and choose for her something also, but when you are about to have it, let her select what she would like to have from the two.

Change her hair style (look after her hair)

Ladies enjoy a man who takes care of their hairs, so make sure you sponsor or look after that very often, escort them to their hair stylists by surprise at once in a while, then you will see the way she loves you more every day.

To be loved more every day by your lady depends on how you play your game. It's not only sex that will make a girl love you but, you can also do things like holding her hand in public, buy her simple gifts, take her out and know what she loves. Beside that let her choose her favorite place to visit when you are going out. In addition to that her hair is the number one priority on her body, look after it every now and then as ladies they love and respect fashion.   

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HOW TO WIN YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND BACK BY DR SHABAH

HOW TO WIN YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND BACK.

You broke up with your girlfriend, she told for you it's over, you feel the panic because you don't know actually what is next. You feel lonely, scared not knowing what the future is holding for you, sometimes you forget about yourself, you cannot eat only spending days alone in your apartment,maybe even shedding tears, wondering why and what happened. This is  very painful, hurtful feeling which makes it hard to not be desperate after breakup. Your friends maybe telling you to forget about them and move on, that there is plenty of fish in the sea, but your heart is telling you never to give up. The question is what are some of the best ways to help you win your girlfriend back after a breakup? I Dr Shabah, as someone specialized and an expert in love related matters, i have come up with some ways which when put in action will help you to reunite with your loved one. This is what you have to do.

Spend sometime without contacting them.

You cannot solve problems, right away after breaking up, this is one the huge mistakes most people make after breaking up. During this time, you are completely totally confused and full of mixed emotions, this state of mind can't allow you to talk to them in such a way that solve your conflicts or misunderstandings. On the other hand they too, feel the same way, so they won't be able to talk to you with calm and in a respectable manner.

When you broke up with someone, their hearts go through a healing process for a while, it's a very critical, difficulty time for them, they need time and space to figure out what is next? As much as you can, create time and space without talking to them whether it's a phone call, text, email or any other social means of communication, also avoid all those places you think, you can bump into each other accidentally, unless if it's unavoidable like a place of work, college and so forth. Take a couple of weeks or perhaps a month without making any kind of communication to them, wanting to discuss what happened, pleading, begging and being needy, i understand this can't be that easy to do, but you must be determined and do it. This is for your own good, because time and space is the best remedy of healing broken hearts and wounds of the ending relationship. 

Don't panic and admit the breakup. 

 

Most couples who breakup, make a lot of mistakes, simply because they panic in their mind and fail to admit with the situation that they broke up. There is no shame in admitting that your relationship has ended, like i mentioned before it's hard to not be desperate after a breakup, during this time you have to be extra careful towards your actions and words. If your partner decides to leave you, don't see it as a threat in your life. When you panic and fail to admit the breakup, your mind will tell you to do a lot of things thinking that you can get your partner back at that very moment, that's when you start begging, stalking, jealousy, sometimes yelling at them in public or in front of their friends, throwing out their stuff, destruction of their properties, fighting, verbal and physical abuse etc. These behaviors will only further push them away and at times you can even find yourself in jail for destroying or damaging someone's properties. I understand how badly you want them back in your life, but avoid these actions by telling yourself that the past is past and focus or concentrate on the present. If you have committed these actions or mistakes before, don't beat up yourself over them, if you are about to commit them,tell yourself to resist,and find other ways to make yourself happy and comfortable. You can look for your old friend who was close, funny and used to make you laugh, your family should be also of great help,because am sure they will never abandon you.

If you have already made some of these mistakes, like i mentioned before don't beat yourself up, even if they should have been avoided, secondly some of these mistakes or behaviors, at some point are part of healing broken hearts and learning process.

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